Senior High Formal and RE-gift exchange

When: Friday December 19th
Where: Carino’s Italian Grill in Westland
What time: Meet at Memorial at 5:15pm. Return by 9:15
Cost: Meals range from $5 to $20 each.
To check out the menu and prices, click on the link:
http://www.carinos.com/menu/default.aspx

Don’t forget to bring you wrapped gift for the re-gift exchange!
Sign up at the Senior High board.
For questions, contact Adam at 734.464.6722 or Adam.Schultz@5milechurch.org

First, an invitation: everyone is invited to join together in prayer at the church every Wednesday from 1:15-2:15. It’s during this prayer meeting that I am frequently moved to see how many of our members are requesting prayer for their parents, children, relatives, coworkers, friends, and neighbors. Often I find myself praying not only for those who are ill or who have other needs but also for those members who make the requests. Corporate prayer is one of those practices of the church that reminds us how much we are connected as a family.

Even though “family” could be a negative thing for some people, considering the dysfunction of so many of our own families, the family of God is set before us as an ideal, a model for our own families. This is one of the greatest blessings of our relationship with God. In Ephesians 2:17-19, Paul writes: “He came and preached peace to you who were far away and peace to those who were near. For through him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit. Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and aliens, but fellow citizens with God’s people and members of God’s household.” Paul writes that Jesus’ death has not only brought peace between us and God but among all his people. It’s through the death of Christ that not only are we made members of God’s household but we are able to bring our prayers for each other to God directly.

As we start thinking about Thanksgiving and Christmas, seasons which have strong family ties, let’s consider how we can grow closer together as a family. For some this may mean a dramatic change of mindset. While not everyone is in a stage of life where there is a mother, father, and children, we all have one Father, and we are all brothers and sisters. If we can start thinking of our church as our family, we can pray more effectively and work together more effectively. Then we can bring more people to know the peace that we have as a family in Christ.

I look at people who write letters and thank-you notes and send birthday cards on time with envy, desiring to be a better friend and encourager. The apostle Paul was a great letter writer. Sure, much of our doctrine comes from his letters, but you can tell from them that Paul was pretty good at personal relationships. In 1 Corinthians 16:14-16 we can find personal encouragement alongside solid doctrine: “Do everything in love. You know that the household of Stephanas were the first converts in Achaia, and they have devoted themselves to the service of the saints. I urge you, brothers, to submit to such as these and to everyone who joins in the work, and labors at it.”

Paul has written out quite a few rebukes, admonitions, commands, and other bits of teaching throughout this letter, but as he concludes, the letter becomes more personal. We can read Paul’s love for the church and for the family of Stephanas. He also encourages the church to submit to leaders such as these ones whom they know.

As we follow up the annual congregational meeting and start a new fiscal year, let’s focus on connecting together in submission to our leaders. For the church in Corinth, Paul indicates that everyone knows the household of Stephanas and of their service to the church family, and he holds them up as an example to the rest of the body. Paul’s direction to submit to leaders such as these isn’t a simple matter of hierarchy; it’s an opportunity to point out the example of a servant-leader and encouragement to follow that example.

Hebrews 13:17 says: “Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you.” The writer points out that there’s a mutual benefit to submission. By submitting to our leaders we are joining together to do the work that we are all called to do, and in that submission, the work will become a joy for all.

The Jr. High and Sr. High students along with the adult leaders sacrificed their Sunday afternoon to use their hands and feet to serve others. We were able to wash windows, rake leaves, trim trees, pull weeds, spread mulch, and talk with the home owners.

What an incredible way to spread love and be an example of Christ!

We have a great opportunity to get connected through participation this fall. Our upcoming Christmas program will combine choirs, children through adults, to share the message of Jesus’ birth through music and song. There will be several portions sharing the message through drama. This program is planned to be performed over several evenings, and there will be many opportunities for others to participate in ways other than singing or acting.

One interesting thing about this approach is that many different people of many different ages with many different skills and talents will work together as a body to communicate a single message: Jesus is born! There is a thin line that we tread when we have Christmas programs-the name itself makes us nervous as we try to balance the most important message the world has heard with the idea of performing music, singing songs, and acting. Those things are often done in a spotlight, focusing on the soloist, the lead actor, the musician, and filling those roles sometimes leads to competition. But with the many groups being assigned portions of the music, drama, set design and construction, audio production, and other tasks, no individual can take the spotlight. The team focuses on Jesus alone.

Ephesians 4:11-16 describes multiple roles-apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers-but they’re all focused on one purpose: “to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up.” Because this event is for all ages, families can participate together. What better way to train children how to be part of the body than to have them work with their parents as part of the body! “As each part does its work,” we will become unified in our faith and knowledge of Jesus, from kids through adults. Want to get connected? Join the choirs, as a family. Volunteer your skills as a builder, painter, or speaker. Let’s work together to share the Good News of Jesus’ birth!

Perhaps the biggest obstacle to unity, whether in the family, in the church, or in any community, is our tendency for selfishness. We all have different wants and needs, some good, some bad, some legitimate, and others… not so much. When our individual wants and needs come in conflict with the wants and needs of someone else, problems arise. Sometimes the conflict leads to compromise; sometimes it leads to one person giving up their position to please or serve another; and other times it just gets ugly.

Paul tells us in Ephesians 5:21, “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” This directive comes in a list of others intended to encourage the church to do as Paul wrote in the first two verses of that chapter: “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” As disciples of Jesus, we strive to be more like him, to be imitators of him, because we love him. Jesus’ example of sacrifice, giving himself for our sake, leads us to submit to one another.

As we continue in our mission to love God, love people, and serve like Jesus, we will become more unified as we imitate Jesus. This shows clearly the importance of the process of becoming and growing as a disciple. It’s one thing to connect to God, but if we’re not growing in our faith and knowledge of Jesus, we won’t be able to imitate him as we should.

The more we learn about Jesus, the more we can see the importance of submitting to each other, giving up our own wants and needs for the sake of the whole body. While it seems counterintuitive, the more we put others first, the closer we connect to them; just as when we submit to God, we grow closer to him. Let’s continue to encourage each other, out of love for God and each other, and submit to each other as we grow and serve together.

Back-to-school time is kind of like my New Year’s Day. Ever since I was a child, I’ve always thought in the terms of a school year. So, with a new year comes renewed purpose.

For the past year, I’ve been focusing on the idea that the church is the body of Christ. And just like any body, we have a purpose. In order to do that, we need to be connected. We all have gifts, skills, talents, experiences, and knowledge that prepare us as individuals to do various tasks, but when we get connected, we need to figure out how all that goes together so this body can live according to its purpose.

Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 12:18 that “God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.” Not only are we all different parts of one body, but God has put us where we ought to be. That can get confusing, but again, if we think of this as a new school year, the uncertainty is just a part of growth.

The first day of school brings together a bunch of kids who don’t know what’s going on until the teachers direct them to specific desks or lockers. Kids have a general understanding of what school is, but they have to grow with the specifics. We’re the same way. We know we’re supposed to be together and heading in one direction. We don’t know specifically what we’re going to do from day to day, but we trust that there will be someone there to guide us. That’s why we have the Bible, the Holy Spirit, teachers, and other leaders, to guide us as we grow.

And next year, even though we might be back in the same uncertain position, we are a step ahead of those who have come behind us, and we can lead them to where we are. Our purpose as a church is to make disciples who make more disciples, people who love God, love people, and serve like Jesus. And the process begins with getting connected, first to God and then to others, so we can grow and serve together.

I don’t think my kids are looking forward to going back to school as much as Sandi and I are, but I love this time of year. I love school and the whole educational process, and I believe that it’s one of the central points of what we do within the church.

Paul makes this pretty clear in Ephesians 4:11-16. Verses 11 and 12 tell us there’s a structure in place to build up the body. Verses 12 and 13 say that the areas to build are in service, unity, and knowledge. Verses 14 through 16 tell us that the result is growth in understanding, love, and service. Verse 16 tells us that this growth works only as we work together, each of us doing our part. Basically Paul tells us that in order for people to have the life that God intended for us to have, we need to connect to God and each other, grow in our faith and knowledge of Jesus, and serve together like Jesus.

We have the structure in place; so the next step is to start building up the body in knowledge. We can do that by each of us getting into God’s Word through smaller groups, especially in our Adult Bible Fellowship groups on Sunday morning. We have groups for adults of all ages and in different stages of life. September 7 is the beginning of a new quarter, and each class has chosen their curriculum. You can read about the different classes and what they will be studying in the new ABF brochures which can be found at the welcome center. Then it’s just a matter of checking them out and making the connection.

As a side note, we are working to grow our ABF for young adults. Instead of focusing on college-age adults, whose stage of life doesn’t permit them to attend regularly, we want to build a core group of young professionals, couples, and parents. This will allow this growing segment in our church family to connect, grow, and serve together, and in turn, they can provide a stable “home” for college-age students as they transition from student ministry to adult ministry.

The current sermon series “Real Revival” has been kind of dangerous, in the sense that it brings up issues that we might rather leave alone, that it focuses attention on things that make us uncomfortable, that it calls attention to the places where we fall short as individuals and as a body. But that’s probably a good thing for us.

When I got my first job with health benefits, the first doctor I visited, before he even introduced himself, said, “Tell me why you don’t want to see your children grow up.” I knew he was talking about my weight and my unhealthy lifestyle, but it made me mad—so I found another doctor. Fast forward ten years, and the newest doctor, in a string of a half dozen or so, tells me I am diabetic. I didn’t want to hear it. It made me uncomfortable, but now I had to act.

James 5:16 tells us, “Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” In the sermon on July 20, I said I wasn’t sure how we should follow the example of the nation of Israel in 1 Samuel 7, where they publicly confessed their sin as a nation. I said we’re too private and independent for that. But James tells us that if we truly want to be healed, we need to confess to each other. Maybe that’s where we start. If we can trust our brothers and sisters in Christ enough to share our own individual struggle with sin and pray for each other—remember, intercession makes an impression—then God will heal us.

As God heals us as individuals, then our prayers for real revival will become more effective. As James 5;16 ends, “The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.” Let’s get connected to each other and confess our struggles with sin and pray for each other. As men gather together and confess their sins, they will grow stronger in their faith. As women gather together and pray for each other, they will grow stronger in their faith. And God will heal us, and we will grow together as a body.

On Monday, July 14, about a dozen of us from Memorial climbed into the church van and headed out to the intersection of Telegraph and Schoolcraft to meet up with Larry Simmons, pastor of Babe Memorial AME Church, and a couple dozen more folks from other churches to intercede for Detroit, Michigan, the United States, and the rest of the world. Simmons and other ministers from the greater Detroit area planned this date based upon 2 Chronicles 7:14, which says, “If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land” (NIV).

Mark began the current sermon series, “Real Revival,” on this passage, and just this past Sunday (July 13), he preached that “intercession makes an impression.” That’s why we went. That’s what we did. We prayed for the Church, for the city, for the region, for the world, because we all need God’s presence.

I have to confess. On a Monday morning, with the fall programming looming, with an unwritten sermon and Bible school lesson waiting to be finished, with all kinds of email to answer and other things to do, I wasn’t thrilled with the idea of leaving the office for a few hours. But the Holy Spirit pushed me out the door (”What did you preach yesterday? Were you paying attention?”).

When we found the group (”Hey, that guy has a Bible! It has to be them”), we were greeted warmly—with hugs! Then we praised God together for a few minutes. Then we prayed. I have to tell you, some of our brothers and sisters in Christ from other traditions and denominations, wow, can they pray! And when Larry Simmons prayed for Mark, I was also blessed.

And it made an impression. I know that the sermon intended for us to understand that our prayers for others “impresses” God, but the intercession of those brothers and sisters for Mark and this church and our ministry moved me. Praise God that we’re Christians only, but not the only Christians!